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Peer Relationship Therapy for Children & Teens

Helping Your Child Build Fulfilling Friendships and Social Confidence

Peer relationships are central to children's development, affecting their self-concept, emotional well-being, and even academic success. When children struggle socially—whether due to shyness, social anxiety, friendship conflicts, bullying experiences, or social skills challenges—it can impact every aspect of their lives. As both a licensed therapist and mother of three San Francisco teenagers, I understand the crucial importance of helping young people develop healthy social connections.


Peer relationship therapy provides children and teens with a safe space to explore social challenges, develop effective interpersonal skills, and build confidence in their ability to form and maintain meaningful friendships. Whether your child struggles with making friends, maintaining friendships, navigating social conflicts, or recovering from painful peer experiences, specialized therapeutic support can transform their social experience and self-perception.


Ready to help your child develop social confidence and fulfilling friendships? Book a free 15-minute consultation to discuss how we can work together to build these essential life skills.

Understanding Social Challenges in Children & Teens

Social difficulties can manifest in many ways across development:

  • Younger children: Difficulty sharing, taking turns, joining play, or understanding others' perspectives

  • School-age children: Friendship conflicts, group dynamics challenges, exclusive behavior

  • Tweens and teens: Social anxiety, peer pressure, complex social hierarchies, digital communication issues

Social challenges often coexist with other issues like anxiety, depression, ADHD, self-esteem concerns, or experiences of bullying, divorce, or frequent moves. They may also emerge during major life transitions like changing schools or neighborhoods.


My Approach to Peer Relationship Therapy

My therapeutic approach to social challenges combines several evidence-based methodologies:

  1. Social skills training: Developing concrete communication, cooperation, and conflict resolution abilities

  2. Cognitive behavioral techniques: Addressing negative social thinking patterns and building confidence

  3. Role-playing and practice: Creating safe opportunities to rehearse social interactions

  4. Emotion coaching: Enhancing emotional awareness and regulation in social contexts

  5. Social problem-solving frameworks: Building systematic approaches to friendship challenges

  6. Group therapy options: Providing structured opportunities for real-time social learning

As both a therapist and mother of three teenagers in San Francisco, I bring professional expertise and real-world understanding to our work together. I'm familiar with the unique social landscape of San Francisco schools and neighborhoods, including the intense academic pressures, diverse peer groups, and complex social dynamics our city's youth navigate.


Signs Your Child May Benefit from Peer Relationship Therapy

Consider reaching out if your child:

  • Expresses loneliness or difficulty making friends

  • Faces frequent peer rejection or exclusion

  • Shows anxiety about social situations or avoids them

  • Has limited interaction with peers outside of structured activities

  • Experiences recurring conflicts with friends

  • Demonstrates lagging social skills like reading social cues or perspective-taking

  • Has experienced bullying or negative peer experiences

  • Shows significant social anxiety or worries about what others think

Supporting Parents of Socially Struggling Children

Parents play a crucial role in supporting children's social development. Through our work together, I'll help you:

  • Understand your child's unique social challenges

  • Create appropriate opportunities for social growth

  • Coach your child through friendship difficulties

  • Balance supporting independence with providing guidance

  • Address social media and technology challenges

  • Collaborate with schools on social issues when needed

For parents seeking additional guidance, I also offer specialized parent coaching sessions focused on supporting children's social development.


Begin Your Child's Journey to Social Confidence

While social challenges can be painful, with the right support, children and teens can develop remarkable social skills and confidence that will serve them throughout life. As both a licensed therapist and mother of three teenagers here in San Francisco, I bring professional knowledge and compassionate understanding to our therapeutic relationship.


Contact me today for a free 15-minute consultation to discuss how we can work together to help your child develop the social skills and confidence they need to build fulfilling friendships.

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